Consciously Creating Your Dream Life
Most would say congratulations are in order—you find yourself at a stage of the journey that a large majority of seekers hopes to attain someday. You, however, having made it thus far, know better than anyone, that this journey never ends, and that this stage is not the final one, but rather just another higher perspective, another loop on the ever-expanding Spiral of Life.
Even though the journey never ends, you did come a long way, arguably farther that most—even if this journey is by no means a competition—and you have had your share or challenges along the way. In the process, you have learned to regard those challenges as opportunities for growth, rather than unsurpassable obstacles, and you have likely succeeded in achieving certain things that sometimes still blow your own mind when you think about them through the prism of who you once thought you were.
That does not necessarily mean you have manifested a shocking shift in your external circumstances, although you are likely materially better off than you were in the previous stages of the journey—but it matters far less. The irony is that, even though the material aspect of it was an important motivation when you embarked on the journey, you have found internal treasures along the way that you would never again be willing to trade for any material comfort.
You have learned that abundance is a state of being, not having, and that you really do not need all that much, materially speaking, although not having to think about money does infuse Life with a certain sense of ease, which, along with joy, is your predominant state of being these days.
If we were to apply the stage of the journey you are currently at to the levels of learning, you would now find yourself somewhere between conscious competence and unconscious competence; your experience has allowed you to learn how to get to this point, and though you now truly know what to do in order to create the Life of your dreams, you no longer have to think about it much, because you are becoming whom you truly are, which allows you to manifest your Truth effortlessly.
Everything you have already been through endowed you with a certain sense of tranquil wisdom that those who are still seeking their own Path feel inexplicably drawn to. You provide and example that shows that that anything is possible, and an inspiration to keep going, and it is more than just likely that your Mission here on Earth is closely related to serving others on their own journeys.
In whichever way you choose to do that, thank you—
for shining your light, being you, and for showing others how to be themselves.
ACTION STEPS
PRACTICE SELF-LOVE
As you begin to realize that your Mission has to do with serving others, you turn your attention outwards again, and that will sometimes make you forget about yourself. Your capacity to give is a gift, but as noble as your cause might be, you must always keep in mind that you can only ever truly give from your overflow. And so, you should always be your own priority.
At this level, you are already more than capable of understanding that taking care of yourself is by no means selfish, but your first instinct is probably to make sure everyone else is ok before you even ask yourself how you are feeling. Here’s a twist, though: if you cannot seem to put yourself first for your own sake, do it for everybody else’s.
It is crucial that you realize that nobody can take care of you if you are not willing to take care of yourself, nor will you be capable of taking care of everybody else the way they deserve to be taken care of if you do not take care of yourself first. In other words, others can only love you as much as you are capable of loving yourself.
That said, practicing self-love is not this grand complicated technique that you somehow have to master, it is simply your willingness to consider your own needs and to give yourself the time and space you need to fully recharge before you run off to save the world again.
SHARE YOUR WISDOM
Once you make sure you are ok, by all means, do continue to focus your Mission outwards. The truth is, the world needs you right now, so please, take everything you have learned so far, and find a way to share your experience with other people. Be the example and the inspiration they need to continue down their own Path, offer guidance and support whenever and wherever you can, and do so in a way that feels authentic and fulfilling to you.
Having come do far in your own journey, you might be fooled into believing that what you have achieved is no big deal, and some remnants of the old Ego-driven self-doubt might creep up on you occasionally, probably sounding something like “what could I possibly have to offer other people, I am not all that special” or “why should anyone ever choose to listen to me?”.
You’re partly right, too; most people will never choose to listen to you, but that that’s irrelevant. Those few that need to hear exactly what you have to say right now are the only ones that matter. If something you do, say, or be, changes one aspect of one life for the better, you have already accomplished your Mission and made this world a better place.
You will never know just how far the positive ripple effect of everything that you do might reach, but know that you are one of a kind, and remember—
"We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give."
-Winston Churchill
sacred rituals
Most of the time, you are in a really good spot. Life is flowing effortlessly, and your days are filled with joy and the things you genuinely enjoy. However, be mindful of that fact that this state of ease is not to be taken for granted. It is actually the combined result of the previous two steps; when you take loving care of yourself and then give to others form the overflow you create, Magic happens/
Yet, we still live in a Magic-averse reality, and when you get too consumed with the technicalities of everything that you do, the Magic often slips onto the background. Do not let that happen—among all other things you are creating, create the time and the sacred space necessary for you to reconnect wit it, and the true essence of who you are.
The best way to do that is to regularly and consistently engage in rituals. They can be small and daily, elaborate and sporadic, or anything in between. At this stage, I can already tell you to follow your Knowing; tune to discover what you need in order to be the happiest, most authentic version of yourself, and then make that sacred.
Use this sacred time and space to return to yourself, realign and recalibrate, so that you may course-correct if necessary and carry on into the light with wind in your sails.
Enjoy the journey, Beautiful one.Regardless of the stage of the journey you are at now, it is important you know that it never ends.
There is no final point, no ultimate goal that would bring your exploration to an end.
You might now be at a stage at which you are consciously creating your dream life, but something might happen tomorrow that changes your circumstances, forcing you to rethink your new reality and re-awaken to your new, evolved self all over again.
That might seem frustrating at a first glance, but it really is what makes Life magnificently beautiful.
Remember, the journey is always a spiral, never a straight line.
At every step of the way, know that you have already been here before, albeit on a different loop in the Spiral.
You got this; somewhere deep down, you already know what your next step is.
(re)discover yourself
However, if your next step seems blurry to you, if you are not quite sure where to turn or you feel like some guidance would be something you would benefit form at this moment in time, I warmly invite you to consider the possibility of booking a 1-on-1 session with me.
In an private setting, we dive much deeper into your current situation and your next right step based not only on the results of this assessment or whatever you feel is particularly important to you right now, but on what is going on in your energy field. I use a breakthrough technology based on ancient wisdom that has a Magical ability to capture what is going on with you energetically, so that we can explore and remove the blockages that have been preventing you from living up to your fullest potential.
Want more?
If you feel like you would like to expand on the result of the quiz, the most obvious places to start is my book, Ascending the Spiral of Life. In it, you’ll find in-depth explorations of different stages of the journey, which will help you pinpoint and move beyond everything that has been keeping you stuck. The book will also provide you with additional, very specific inspired actions you can take in order to actually experience the positive change that is possible for you, instead of merely just thinking about it.
